爱情里所需要的是什么？

你知道在爱情里什么最重要吗?

在爱情里最重要的就是坦白和信任...... 

坦白这两个字，说来容易.... 但如果要做的话，你能做到吗？

可能你会问，如果是善意的谎言呢？是情有可言吗？

你可能觉得说谎是为对方好，但你有没有想过，万一谎言被对方拆穿了后果会是怎样的？

虽然善意的谎言能暂时性让对方心情好转，但谎言一旦被拆穿的话，后果一定不可收拾......

比方说，对方有可能会更加地伤心难过或让对方缺乏信任.....

对方可能会选择原谅你，但他一定会对你所说的话有所保留.....

我相信大家都有听过“狼来了”这故事吧？

当同一个人接二连三说谎的话，改天谁还会再相信？

哪会有人对他有信任？相信他的人肯定是笨蛋..... 对不对？

也有些人会为了不被对方拆穿谎言，就会用另一个谎言来掩饰.....

到最后，本来是一个谎言但最终变成了不止一个...... 后果就更加不堪设想了．．．

所以说啊，如果想要经营一个永恒的爱情，坦白和信任不可缺少的．．．

PS    这文章只是我个人的想法，请不要对号入座..... 谢谢.... ^^

DIY GaLaXy ShOes....

Now Galaxy Print items became a trend that has been so popular for awhile....

I don't know what has come over me, but last few days while browsing the net, I found myself purposely searching for Galaxy Print shoes.... 

Last month, I bought a Galaxy bag through online and now I'm desperate for Galaxy shoes.... 

At first I thought of buying it through online but I found out that its quite expensive so I decided to make my OWN Galaxy Print Shoes....!?!

Acrylic Paint is the main ingredients.... If YOU would like to paint them with Pink colour then YOU have to mix it on YOUR own as its not selling in the market....

YOU also need brushes.... Sponges can be used if YOU want but I personally prefer paint brush... 

Aerosol Paint....

Cellophane tape.... 

This is the shoes I going to paint on....

I bought this shoes from Bata & it costs me RM40...

YOU can buy any shoes if YOU want.... ^^

Firstly, YOU have to prepare a pair of shoes... Any plain shoes will do... doesn't mean must be the exactly the same shoes as mine... ^^

Secondly, take the shoes laces out and tape round the soles of the shoes in order to avoid painting on it... 

Just like this....

P.S    This picture is from GOOGLE... xD 

Thirdly, before YOU start to paint, YOU have to mix some colours as there is ONLY basic colour selling in the market... Once YOU have done mixing, YOU can start to paint... Just paint it like YOU are painting on the paper... ^^

Then, this step is optional... YOU can dab little bit of white paint around the shoes to create the effect of stars & cloud... I personally prefer simple and nice so I didn't try it... 

After that, YOU can flick paint over the shoes using toothbrush to create stars. Add a couple of bigger stars if YOU want to... 

Finally, let the shoes dry overnight in order to make sure that its fully dried up.... Once its dried up, spray the aerosol paint around the shoes so that the paint will last long and wouldn't fade away.... YOU are done~!!!

Good Luck~!

This is before the paint dried up.... 

A closer LoOK.... xD

Final Result....!?! 

I absolutely L0v3 how mine turned out..... At first I wasn't too sure if they'd look good at all but after painting them with different colours and it look AWESOME~! It looks exactly what I want! I seriously can't wait to wear them... HaHaHa... 

Anyway, Good Luck to YOU people who want to DIY YOURSELVES too... 

P.S   There is NOTHING impossible to him who will try...  <3

你相信缘分吗？

在茫茫人海中，你会遇见很多人，也许是陪你走一站的，也许只是一个过客，

于是，生命中会留下了许多的回忆，一段经历一个回忆；一段感情一个回忆；

一段付出一个回忆；无数的等待，只是为了最终的那个美好结局..........

所以说，相识是一种缘分，相爱更是一种幸福.....

在大千世界里，能和最适合、最体贴、最温柔的那个人相守，那是一种默契.....

相爱是一种感觉，一种需要两颗心去体验和感受，才能体会出那跌宕起伏的美丽....

相爱也是一种付出，是一种无怨无悔，心甘情愿地为对方付出一切....

如果你已经找到了自己的真爱，好好把握和他在一起的每一分每一秒.......

好好地珍惜他......

千万不要错过了他......

今天是7月14日，也是银色情人节.....

这一天是把意中人带回家给父母认识，或把对方介绍给其他自己所尊敬的长辈的好机会....

如果你要对自己的意中人表白或见家长的话，就要把握机会，就趁今天吧......

祝大家成功啊~！


P.S     相爱，那是一种缘分；

           吵架，那是一种沟通；

           哭泣，那是一种气氛；
 
           大笑，那是一种快乐；

           恩爱，那是一种幸福.......

 最后，我祝大家情人节快乐~！

ThUNd3r sT0rM~!!!!

It's RAINING now........ RAINING often bring my MOOD down especially when there is

 ThUnD3r sT0rM~! Yea... YOU are right... I'm scared of Thunder since I was young......

Usually my mom will comfort me and stay by my side whenever there is thunderstorm no

matter day or night.... BUT everything gonna be different for NOW....

Whenever the lightning strike down from the sky, my H3art beat 10000 times faster

than usual...  The feeling of unsecured came to visit me and I ended up crying under

the blanket..... T.T

I miss YOU, MOMMY~!

I miss the day YOU accompany me to sleep.... Miss the day YOU coax me to sleep.....

I feel kinda LONELY right now.....

I seriously hoping there is someone would be able to

comfort me....

talk to me on the phone in order to distract me....

Chat with me....

stay by my side....

I use to think L0v3 wasn't gonna be hard to find. But in today's society finding

true love is so hard with Liars & Cheaters AROUND.


P.S    Falling in L0v3 is the SIMPLEST thing but FINDING tru3 L0v3 is the HARDEST thing.... <3

谁说的？ =）

虽然人人都知女人心，海底针，难以捉摸...... 但是，我能大胆的说，大部分的女生都在追求着

浪漫，当然也包括我在内.... =P

其实，大致上浪漫的男生都是花花公子，而不浪漫的都是读书虫、乖乖仔或是宅男..... 所以说

嘛，男人不坏女人不爱....... HaHaHa.....！

可是，最近我发现，对男生而言，有钱才能拥有浪漫...... 其实，这种想法是错误的..... 真真的

浪漫是不一定需要一大笔钱...... 要拥有浪漫就必须要有心思和时间...... 只要有心思，就算只是

送一张纸条，对方都会觉得很浪漫.....

除此之外，不一定要在高级餐厅享用烛光晚餐才算是浪漫..... 虽然地点是非常地重要，但是，

（还是那一句）心思才是最重要的..... 在海边漫步或吹海风也可以很浪漫啊！为何要用金钱买

浪漫呢？

情人节也没限止一定要买玫瑰花和巧克力送给对方啊..... 为何没想过，给对方惊喜也是浪漫的

一种呢？比方说，带对方去她未去过的地方，以保持着神秘感，然后再送上惊喜...... 我所谓的

惊喜有很多种，例如：在沙滩围满心型的蜡烛、弹一首歌给她听、为她写一首专署你和她的

一首歌曲或者送上自己亲手做的卡片..... 只要你有心思，你就能完完全全拥有她的心........ =)

对我而言，金钱不代表一切...... 谁说女生都爱有钱人？( 不要一支竹竿打翻整船人...... ) 谁说有

钱就一定能幸福？用金钱买幸福，才不是幸福叻...... 就算拥有一切物质的享受，但没有幸福，

那金钱算是什么东西？我个人认为只要每天开开心心，和自己心爱的人简简单单地过生活，

这才是幸福...... 金钱不是万能的...... 虽然说金钱能使到鬼推磨，但你能用金钱买亲情、友情、

爱情和生命吗？

所以嘛，不是任何东西都可以用金钱买的.....  记得要珍惜自己身边的每一个人，对他们好一

些..... 不要等到有一天失去了，才遗憾，这样就太迟了.....!?!?!  ^0^



P.S      Do NOT underestimate yourself by comparing yourself with others....... It's our differences that make      us UNIQUE & BEAUTIFUL~!  <3

相思.....

知道这是什么吗？

没错, 它是........

相思豆...  <3

你们听过相思豆的故事吗？

传说，古时，有位男子出征，他的妻子朝夕在高山的大树下祈望...... 因思念爱人，哭于树

下..... 泪水流干后, 流出的是粒粒鲜红的血滴.... 血滴化成红豆, 红豆生根发芽, 长成大树, 结满了

一树红豆, 而人们称为相思豆.... 春去秋来, 大树的果实, 伴着姑娘心中的思念, 慢慢的变成了地

球上最美的红色心形种子-- 相思豆......

相思就是一个人无时无刻地想念着对方........ 

不管自己有多忙, 脑海里还是会浮现着对方的背影..........

很想知道对方在做什么.......

很想知道对方在想什么........

很想对方马上就出现在自己的面前.......

很想、很想、很想单纯地呆在对方的身边......... 

很想和对方分享今天所发生的事......

如果现在你想起他的话，恭喜你........

你爱上他了......... <3

P.S       相思是一种幸福......... <3     好好把握自己的幸福哦！记得不要忽略了身边的每一个 

             

             人....... ^^

             你们有收集过相思豆吗? 我好想念哦....... 可惜现在好难找到相思树了....... <3

你知道吗...?!?!?!

人生就像一部电影一样，你都不会知道下一秒会发生什么事，可能现在你很开心，但下一秒

钟可能会发生一些不愉快的事情让你伤心、难过..... 而这些事情，不管你伤心或开心，都会记

载在自己的脑海里，变成回忆...................

你知道吗？鱼儿的记忆只有 7 秒钟，一旦过了7秒，刚刚所发生的事情，它都会通通地忘

掉.....  所以，有时不开心的我，都会在想，如果人的记忆可以像鱼儿那样，那该多好啊! 不开

心的事情都可以不知不觉地把它忘掉......  全都不费工夫...... 

有时候，我真的很生气自己，恨我自己为什么还会回想起那些不愉快的事情，而破坏了自己

的心情........  我有很努力地告诉自己不要再想了，但是我的头脑一直都不听话，那些画面还是

会浮现在我的脑海里..... 你说，怎么办才好？有人可以教我吗？

最近也不知道怎么了，我都睡不好，大概每晚都发恶梦，睡到一半乍醒..... 难道是日有所思 夜

有所梦吗？



P.S       希望今晚可以一觉到天亮........   新的一年，新的开始......  我一定会很努力地开开心心

             过这一年......   你们会祝福我吧???   <3

我的心~

还没回马六甲之前，有一个人对我说： "为什么你的心那么的难令人猜透？"

我连想都没想就回答说：“如果女人的心那么容易能猜得透，她就不是女人了。”

后来，妈咪又对我说了同一番的话。

我心想：“ 到底我的心真的有那么难猜得透吗？真的有那么难知道我在想什么吗？”

可能有时候你会觉得我不爱说话，但有时候的我，就像喇叭一样噼里啪啦地讲个不停........

其实，我不说话的时候是因为：

一 ~    我心情不好, 想一个人静一静.....

二 ~    我和你没有共同的话题......

三 ~   我不是很认识你，所以不敢和你说话........

四 ~   我知道你不喜欢我，所以我尽量闭口，以免让你更加讨厌我......

五 ~   我生病或累了......... =(

六 ~   我在发白日梦....... ( 是我的专长 ）Hehe.... =P

认识我的人应该了解我吧~！=D

我是一个很直率的女生，想到什么就说什么，而且每次说话都是一针见血 .... 所以有时候，得

罪了人了，还傻乎乎，发生了什么事都不知道..... 如果我曾经说错了什么，让你不舒服，对不

起呀...... 我不是故意的，别放在心上哦...... 你们大人有大量会原谅我吧？ HeHe.... =P




P.S        我真的很希望能遇见一个不管在什么时候都知道我在想什么，了解我，也能够猜透我的心的另一半.......... <3

sIcK = dOwN......

Mr Sore Throat, Mr Cough, Mr Fever & Mr Flu often visit me at the wrong time!!
Falling sick during exam is Sooooooooooooo NOT good~! 
There are plenty of MEDICINES waiting for me..... T.T
Porridge for 3 meals............ Medicinesssssss after 3 measls.......... 
tHis is so Terrible, hOribble, vEgetable & pEriodic tAbL3.....!?!?!?!
Can ANYONE tell me when will my sore throat, cough and flu cure??? Haizzzzz.... 
I'm DESPERATELY craving for TOMYAM, Asam Laksa, Satay Celup, Nasi Lemak, MC Donalds, Potato chipssssss, Snacks, CHOCOLATE, Ice CREAM, cHicken Rice Balls and DESSERTSSSSSS....!?!?! Temptation everywhere.... I can't stand for any longer... = ="
*Pray Hard hArd.... I don't want to suffer anymore...  ><


P.S       When L0v3 is  NOT madness, it is NOT L0v3..... <3

DisapPoiNted.....

Sometimes, I seriously HATE myself for being too NAIVE.....
Believing what people have told and promise me all the time....
Do YOU know how disappointed I am when the person that I trusted the most lied to me????  *Sigh....
I realized some people don't understand the promises they're making when they make them.... Maybe the promises don't mean anything to YOU, but it meant a lot to M3....
Please...... Don't simply make promises if YOU can't even keep it.....


P.S    Forgiving someone is easy but being able to trust them again is a totally different story...

cHuBbY M3..... =(

Gosshhhhh..... 

YOU

KNOW

WHAT...!!!

I

HAVE

GAINED

6

KG

WITHIN

3

MONTHSSSSSS....!!

At first I thought there is problem with the weighing machine.....

so....... YOU know what have I done????

I measured my weight for almost 20 times....

AND

YET

The result is still the same...  = ="

I seriously have to accept the fact that I, PHON KAI YING have officially GAINED WEIGHT!?!?!

Its the FIRST time in my life time my weight EXCEEDED 50kg!!! * FAINT.... T.T

Can ANYONE tell me, what had happened to me??? =(

I have taken the same amount of food and yet my weight keep on INCREASING...!!!! 

zzzz....

I don't want to become BIG, FAT and CHUBBY girl..... Sobsob....   T.T

Starting from now onwards, I gonna KEEP FIT...!?!?!
WARNING....!!!!!!
People around M3, pLeAs3 don't temp me with Nic3 FOODSSSSS.....!!!
I want to do exercises.... ANYONE willing to play badminton with m3?? HaHaHa.... =P

P.S    Wish me LuCk ya..... <3  HaHaHa....

我不懂.........

有些事情不是我不懂，只是我不想懂..... 

没错！我就是选择了逃避，因为我真的很害怕面对事实，尤其是在感情方面...

可能你会觉得我很胆小，但这是唯一保护我自己的方法......

我被伤害过，痛过，也哭过...... 所以，我很害怕，真的真的很害怕会再次地被伤害。

当爱情找上门来时，我会顾虑到很多很多的事情，比如说：他真的会给我幸福吗？他会真心

爱我吗？他会珍惜我吗？他 会一心一意地爱我吗？他是认真的吗？他会不会背叛我？他会抛

弃我吗？他会不会使我伤心、难过吗？

我的脑海里就会出现一大萝的疑问.........

 我的内心就像玻璃般的那么脆弱，很容易受伤，所以一旦受伤了，就会很难地复原.......

 回想那时候伤痕累累的我，平均每晚睡觉前都会躲在被窝里偷偷地哭了.....拼命地在想，到底

我做错了什么，为什么对方 这样地对自己..... 每晚都会以泪洗脸一直地延续到好几个月.... 

其实，我是个缺乏安全感的女生，所以一直以来我都很希望身边会有一个能保护自己，也会

在我无助的时候呆在我身边 让我依靠的男生.....

我不像其他的女生，那么地坚强，我只是一个小鸟依人一样的女生，喜欢依靠别人，喜欢粘

着男友的女孩.... 

如果你认识我的话，你一定会察觉，我很爱笑但也很容易哭.... 可以说大部分我的朋友都看过

我流泪，所以我承认我就 是爱哭鬼... Peace~! HaHaHa... =P

 我对爱情从来都不会像小孩子玩泥沙一样，玩了就算.....我一旦放了感情，我就会很投入，也

会很努力地为对方付出.... 甚至会爱对方多过爱自己.....



P.S    我真的希望能遇到一个能让自己每天开开心心，不会让自己掉泪的人...... <3

m0N3Y....???

=P

Money Money MoNEY MONEY......???

 

"It's not about the money, money, money.... We don't need your money, money, money.... We just wanna make the world dance.... Forget about the price tag....." Jessie J Price Tag <3

MONEY is important to everyone but NOT everything can be valued with the amount of MONEYSSS.... Don't YOU think so??? There always meaning behind every present.... We shouldn't judge someone's sincerity with the value of the present.... For me, as long as the person got the heart to give YOU present, the price is NOT important at all.... I would feel very happy instead as there is someone who concern and care about M3.... <3

No matter how big or small the present is, its enough to show how sincerity the person is or how important YOU are to the person... As YOU know, its hard to find someone who are sincere to own self... So, appreciate and tresure them well.... =)

 

 

 

P.S Don't ever look down on a small present because its possible to brighten someone's day.... Its all about the heart.... <3

 

My BoyFriend.... =D

做我的男朋友不需要很多钱，够用就好。

出手用不着那么大方，肯为我花钱就好。

不需要你多说甜言蜜语，在我无助的时候，可以给我肩膀靠就好。

不需要有多浪漫，晚上陪我到处走走逛逛聊天就好。

既然我们会走在一起，证明我们相爱的。

我的要求不是很高，去逛街的时候，你会拉着我的手。看到熟人，能够和对方介绍＂这是我女朋友＂就好。

当我们不在一起的时候，会常打电话，发简讯给我，证明你有在想我。讲电话的时候，要多说话，我喜欢听到你讲，那样感觉你就在我身边，不许先挂我电话，我不喜欢听到＂嘟嘟＂声。

看到美女时候瞄几眼就好，不要流口水~

久别重逢的时候，记得给我一个拥抱，在我耳边说＂我爱你＂

我知道我很任性，但既然你选择和我在一起，你就要学会包容我，能接受并指出我的不好。

我并不是自以为中心的人。如果你觉得我哪里一方面不好可以告诉我，但不要忽略我。

我可以忍受你直接受说你不爱我，但我讨厌你对我忽冷忽热。

我是人，有感觉，不要说我不喜欢听的话。要是我沉默了，那代表我不想再谈论那个话题了，那么请不要继续说下去。

因为我选择了你，证明我是真的爱你，所以如果我有不好的地方，请你告诉我。

两个人在一起，就要互相信任，你可以有自己的私人空间，但是不可其骗我。

别老是丢我一个人，好不好？


P.S  做我的男朋友辛苦吗？=P

I can't wait for my BIRTHDAY~! =P

Weeeee......!?! Finally it's 1st of NOVEMBER..... 24 more days to MY BIRTHDAY...  HaHaHa....
I'm looking forward to celebrate my birthday with all my beloved FRIENDSSSSSSS although this year gonna be my 1st year to celebrate without my parents... HeHe....  
Hmm...  CURIOUS about what present I wanted the most for this year??? Let me tell YOU,  it gonna be the same answer as previous year... HaHaHa.... 

Don't YOU think its EXTREMELY SUPER DUPER CUTE?!?!?! <3

YESS!!!! Its POODLE....!?! I want it sooooooooooooooooooooo BADLY for my birthday present but too bad my mom don't allow me to rear pets.... Aikkssss.... How good if I could keep my pet in the hostel... XD


P.S    JIE JIE........... I want to go to DISNEYLAND......... Please......  I want the MICKEY MOUSE shoes....!!!! =P

L.0.V.3......

""if you aren't being treated right by a guy, don't wait for him to change! Ditch his sorry butt, disgrace to the male population, and find someone who will treat you with utter respect.
Someone who will honor your morals.
Someone who will make you smile when you're at your lowest.
Someone who will care for you even when you make mistakes.
Someone who will love you, no matter how bad you make them feel.
Someone who will stop what they're doing just to look you in the eyes and say I love you and actually mean it." -Taken from Facebook-


Don't YOU think this post is meaningful for a girl especially this sentence, "if you aren't being treated right by a guy, don't wait for him to change!"... Is that means a guy will never change for a girl no matter what? 

P.S.    Waiting for my White Horse Prince... XD 

What Is L0v3...???

什么是爱情? 情是何物? 对我来说爱情就是像捡石头一样，一边走一边捡自己适合的石头。有些人往往要求太高，虽然已经捡到适合自己的石头但是心里又想可能前面还有更好的，所以就这样错失了好的机会。我呢，对爱情很执着，一旦拥有了，就会做到最好，不管对方有多少的缺点都会忍让但很希望对方会为了自己而改变。如果我真的真的受不了了才会放弃但机会很渺小。所以，往往受伤的是我自己。可能你会觉得我很傻，但这就是我。=)

爱情其实是很甜蜜的。就拿个例子来说，就像任达华一样，他说爱情不是一种一责任，而是一种感觉，一种能让人能不顾一切能为对方而付出，甚至能为对方而死。他之前有了一段失败的婚姻，因为小的时候不知道什么是爱情，以为爱情是一种责任，拍拖后一定要结婚。但有一天他遇上了他现在的妻子，他才深深地了解什么是爱情。虽然他的妻子是个购物狂，但他不因为这事而生气反而他为了要他的妻子能尽情地购物就不断地赚钱。他觉得只要他的妻子开心，他就开心。你可能觉得这只不过是物质上的享受罢了，但换个角色来说，你是他的话，你能像他这样疼爱自己爱的人吗？所以嘛，男人能对女人处处地着想和疼爱是很难得的。我真的真的很希望我能找到一生只能爱我一个和疼爱我的人。<3



P.S   我的梦想会成真吗? 

My uNiV3rsiTy Lif3.....!?!

After pondering a few months without having a good night sleep, I have decided to forget about YOU... Somehow, I don't even know whether will I regret in the future or not.... ?? Who knows right??? Hmm... Anyway, I seriously enjoying my UNIVERSITY LIFE in PENANG....  I met AWESOME friendssss, housematessss, roommatesss and even seniorsss.... They are really nice to me... They made me fell in L0v3 with PENANG!?! HaHaHa.... I appreciate a lot a lot a lot.... =)   THANKS YOU, GUYSSSSS!!! I L0v3 YOU~!?!

L0v3ly ROoMmate~

sTitCh L0v3r hOus3Mat3~!

FuNnY HoUs3mAt3~!

ChE3sS~!?!?!

P.S     YOU GUYS always brighten my DAY....!!!! =)

Good Nightzzzz all.... <3